If you have children, you should not date until you are divorced because you are still married to your spouse and the Judge could consider any dating to be improper and not in the children’s best interest. If you do not have children, consult with your attorney before dating. Your attorney may advise you that dating is OK. However, it is never OK to begin a sexual relationship before you are divorced, whether or not you have children. Again, discuss this with your attorney first.